Hair Extensions – The Myths Debunked

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I’ve moaned many times on this here blog about my rubbish hair. It’s fine, limp and refuses to grow. It lacks body and bounce. Generally, it’s a bit shit. I blame my mum. But despite trying every thickening, lengthening treatment on the market and spending hundreds of pounds on hair cuts and colours, I’ve never gone down the hair extensions route… until now.

You see, hair extensions have all kinds of horrible connotations. They’re ratty, tatty and the clips show. They’re a completely different colour to your real hair. They’re unethical. They’re sold on market stalls. All these things are true in some cases, but there are a few amazing brands working hard to change perceptions of hair extensions, and Bobby Glam is one of them.

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Triple weft hair extensions, c/o Bobby Glam

After playing around with some cheap extensions (as seen here), I wanted to try them properly so contacted Bobby Glam for a chat. After sending them a photo of my hair in natural light, their stylist colour matched me and I was sent a set of triple weft extensions in ‘Iced Coffee’.

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‘Triple weft’ refers to the thickness of each extension – most extensions come in single wefts, which means you need to add more pieces to build thickness. Bobby Glam extensions come in double, triple or quad wefts so you can achieve the same big, bouncy look but with fewer clips. This is ‘Remy’ hair which has been ethically sourced.

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As soon as I opened the box, I knew these weren’t the extensions I’d been imagining. The branding and packaging is very sleek and modern, and everything looks stylish. There’s also a very handy ‘test’ weft that’s separate from the rest – you can use this to check the colour is a perfect match without opening the main package meaning you can return your extensions if they’re not quite right. Clever!

Clipping in the extensions is ridiculously easy. There are six wefts in total – some wide pieces for the back of your head and some narrower for each side. There are plenty of online tutorials to show you how to clip in extensions, but I just whacked them in and they blended seamlessly into my own hair. It took me 5 minutes, and here’s the result…

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BOOM! Now, I’m not usually one for singing my own praises, but… come on! I am SO pleased with my mermaid hair. After 5 years with short hair, it’s amazing to have such length… but after 27 years with fine, flat hair, it’s the bounce that I’m most excited about.

The difference is too extreme for me to wear these every day, but for special occasions they’re just perfect. They don’t feel heavy or uncomfortable and they look completely natural – in fact, I did a reaction test when answering the door to the postman, and he didn’t bat an eyelid. Success! If you want a va-va-voom look for the party season, I’d recommend them in a shot. You might spend all night stroking your own head, but it’s a small price to pay for hair that would make L’Oreal envious.

Have you ever worn hair extensions? What do you think of them?

47 Comments

Avenue 57

WOW what a transformation! I suffer with the same head of hair as you and I have the same frustrations and have spent the same amount of money trying every product on the market ..

These LOOK amazing – WOW … Could you put them up in a messy up do? Would the clips show?

Fiona

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Jen

Hi Fiona, fellow fine-and-flat-haired female! 🙂

Yes, I think you could put the hair up no problem. You’d have to position it carefully to avoid the clips showing but if it was a messy up do, I don’t think that’d be difficult! 🙂

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Emma

They look amazing, I need some of these in my life. My hair just refuses to grow beyond my shoulders. How long do they last for?

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Jen

Hi Emma, advice on the website says if you look after them carefully they can last a year… I suppose it depends how much you wear them, though.

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Katy

I’ve never worn hair extensions, I’ve often had long hair anyway, and I always thought the same as you, after seeing so many disasters with them! x

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VIPXO

Ahhhh Jen with long hair! Looks so awesome and not fake at all! I really want to try some, not for length just for volume xo

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Jen

They are FAB for volume. If I had long hair I’d wear these all the time, just for the bouncy-ness! Get some!

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Winnie

Omg!! Love the instant hair style change. You look lovely with log and straight hair – definitely a dramatic change but it looks fab!!

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Kirsty {a safe mooring}

These look ace! But I could never use them, partly because my own hair is too short and a weird colour, but mainly because every time I looked at that packaging my inner grammar demon would be screaming “IT’S FEWER NOT LESS!!! FEWER CLIPS!!! NOT LESS CLIPS!!! ARGGHHH!!!”

Ahem. I may have a problem.

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Maria Fallon

LOVE these extensions on you, I am jealous that you suit long and short hair! I would love to try extensions, just to see what I looked like with mermaid hair!

Maria xxx

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fritha louise

I used to wear them a lot, until I had my hair cut really short. I’ll definitely be wearing them again as soon as I’ve grown my crop out long enough to blend them in.
I’ve never heard of Bobby Glam before though, I LOVE the packaging! It makes them look so luxurious.
Long hair definitely suits you Jen. You should try some different “do’s” with them in. FoxyLocksExtensions on YouTube does a load of great tutorials for different looks using extensions if you fancy a play about.

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Emily

Oh, you look bloody fantastic! And they look completely natural! I must say since cutting all my hair off and then deciding I wanted it all back, I’ve been very tempted to go down the extension route!

Emily Wears Things
xx

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rachel

These extensions look lovely, really natural and healthy. I luckily don’t need hair extensions myself but these look fab and have definitely brought a new image to mind when I think of hair extensions. Xx

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Kelly

Gorgeous! Love how bouncy they look.
I have tried a variety of clip in extensions before, and some can look ratty and dare I say cheap.
(if you wanted to wear them in an up do, perhaps a messy side bun, clip them around a hairband and pin to the hair, then pin the extensions around the band to hide and create a bun)
xx

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Kylie

Long hair totally suits you, especially with the fringe and the pouty red lips 🙂 they do look like your real hair. Maybe get someone who is handy with the snippers to feather the ends though. The problem if you have really long hair (like myself) is that everyone asks if it is real! can’t win x

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Isa London

Yes you can be very proud, it is really spectacular and blends perfectly with your hair colour! I also like that they are clips as the French blogs are full of horror stories about glued extension and girls losing big chunks of hair after a while!

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Camelia

GORGEOUS. I think you look absolutely stunning either way, but the difference is nice, and those are great extensions! They look really pretty on you.

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Jazzabelle

oh my goodness, you babe! lovin’ the red lipstick, too. i so wish i could get extensions, but as my hair can get quite frizzy i think that it would end up lookin’ obviously fake on me! such a shame as i so wish i had straight, long hair.

xx

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Law whalebone

These look amazing! Your hair really suit you long as well Jen, it’s great for having a change every now and than. I ordered a fringe as I’m not doing the whole growing it out thing again, I hope it will keep me from getting bored of my hair. These look fab 🙂

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Ellomennopee

I just don’t know when to wear them. So you wear them on a special occasion, and spend the whole night explaining how your hair looks so long?

They look great on you, but I’m interested to know what your strategy will be?

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Jen

I’ve mainly been wearing them when I’m going somewhere with just close friends who ‘get’ the hair, or somewhere no one else (apart from whoever I’m with) knows me. I thought exactly the same as you and really can’t be bothered explaining the sudden growth, so I pick my moments carefully!

I’m going to Edinburgh with my other half for New Year so will be wearing them constantly while there 😉

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Ellomennopee

Interesting. I would do the same and am rather tempted reading this, especially since I have hair JUST like yours.

I think it’s interesting to explore the stigma attached to hair extensions or anything else that people deem “fake”.

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Ladka Mark

Clip in Extensions are a great idea for Weddings, debutante ball’s, parties or any special events. I recently wore extensions for my October Wedding, and loved them, I felt beautiful and full of confidence.
Thanks.
Saga Gold

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Kaye

As long as you are using the correct products and taking care of your hair extensions properly, you should be able to wear extensions for years and years. You may have to get longer ones as your hair grows longer.

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