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Nov 1, 2016

What To Do With Your Freelance Business When You’re Having A Baby

Posted in Pregnancy and Baby, Writing.

Hey, did you know I’m having a baby? And quite soon, too? It’s true. Baby A is now fully cooked… Read more »

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Jan 26, 2016

Five Things I’ve Learnt Since Turning 30

Posted in Home, Writing.

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Feb 15, 2015

30 Before 30 (A Realistic List)

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Feb 12, 2015

Being Well

Posted in Food, Home, Writing.

I’m not entirely comfortable with the word ‘wellbeing’. It sounds a bit faddy and unobtainable, like ‘paleo’ or ‘no carbs’. I… Read more »

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Jan 25, 2015

What To Do If You’ve Screwed Up Your Tax Return

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Jan 11, 2015

Goals for a New Year

Posted in Beauty, Fashion, Food, Home, Writing.

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Oct 6, 2014

On Becoming More Confident

Posted in Beauty, Writing.

Generally speaking, I’m quite a confident person. As soon as I finished university and realised confidence doesn’t have to be tied… Read more »

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Sep 9, 2014

Welcome to JforJen.com

Posted in Blogging, Writing.

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Apr 13, 2014

Growing Up Online

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Dec 31, 2013

Favourite Outfits of 2013

Posted in Blogging, Fashion, Writing.

2013 has been the hardest, toughest, most stressful year of my life. It’s also been wonderful, fantastic and beyond-brilliantly rewarding…. Read more »

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May 21, 2013

Grazia – My Mulberry Recommendation

Posted in Blogging, Fashion, Writing.

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Apr 21, 2013

Photography – The DSLR Alternative

Posted in Blogging, Travel, Writing.

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My name is Jen.

I'm a freelance online writer, dividing my time between Leeds and London (and sometimes New York City). J for Jen is the place I write about fashion, beauty, travel and life in general.

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  • Instagram vs Reality right here... after a really rough night involving a super clingy baby and a very wakeful toddler, I’ve felt less than sprightly today. But Leo has been much more settled, so we’re hoping for a better night 🤞Just a little dose of realness for your feed - the newborn days are hard as hell and if you’ve got to 11am without crying off your mascara, you’re doing a great job (same if you mascara lasts all day, or if mascara is an alien concept to you right now) 💕

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I’ve been writing things online since the late 90s, when my mum finally gave in to my pleas and installed dial-up on my PC. I signed up for MSN Messenger, opened a Live Journal account, set my desktop background as a funny picture of a cat and never looked back.

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  • Instagram vs Reality right here... after a really rough night involving a super clingy baby and a very wakeful toddler, I’ve felt less than sprightly today. But Leo has been much more settled, so we’re hoping for a better night 🤞Just a little dose of realness for your feed - the newborn days are hard as hell and if you’ve got to 11am without crying off your mascara, you’re doing a great job (same if you mascara lasts all day, or if mascara is an alien concept to you right now) 💕
  • Having two kids is HARD. The toddler/newborn juggle is a lot - I find myself breastfeeding while wiping Hazel’s bum, or frantically swaying Leo in the sling while singing my seventh rendition of Old Macdonald. A real lot. Leo is a bit of a velcro baby, Hazel is full of energy and Rob and I aren’t really getting much sleep. The days are fun but the nights are hard, and I definitely feel pretty touched out come 5pm. But then I capture these gorgeous moments and know it’ll be so, so worth it when they can play and grow together. So we’re soldiering on and powering through with the hope that it’ll get easier sometime soon... ish 💕
  • I told myself I wouldn’t bother with pumping this time round - I had such a hard time with it when Hazel was tiny that I didn’t think I could bring myself to do it again. But then I got a blocked duct and a cracked nipple (honestly, the pain was worse than labour) and needed to drain my milk, fast. Luckily the Elvie pump now exists, and let me tell you - it’s a game-changer. Firstly it’s ACTUALLY hands free, like it fits into your regular bra and doesn’t require some elaborate contraption resembling Madonna’s cones (but way less chic). And it’s super slimline, so you could easily button up over it and carry on your day like it’s not there. And to assist with that, it’s also almost complete silent. No moo sound. Revelation. Most importantly for a breast pump, though - it really works. Scroll to see what 10 mins pumping yielded... so much liquid gold! 🍯 The downside is ofc the price - at £250 for a single it is very pricy and probably out of reach for many new parents on maternity pay. I hope that as this kinda tech gets more common, the price will go down. Top tip though - one of my friends found this pump at the Mamas & Papas discount shop in Huddersfield for £180, so keep an eye out if you’re local and in the market! It’s amazing to see women’s healthcare FINALLY getting the tech upgrade we’ve seen elsewhere - the Elvie pump also comes with an app so you can track length of feeds, which boob you last pumped from and how long you pumped for. And the app monitors the level of milk you’re pumping in real time so you don’t spill over the bottle. Clever! I don’t think I’ll do a huge amount of pumping for Leo, but it’s amazing to know I can do it quickly and easily without feeling like a dairy cow (poor cows). And I paid full whack for it, so this is not an ad - hopefully the honest review helps! 🤱🏼 🐄
  • Boss level dadding by the best one. Happy Father’s Day, @roballison 💕🌟
  • I really loved babywearing with Hazel but with Leo, it’s a total lifesaver. He’s a bit of a velcro baby and doesn’t like to be put down, so as much as I love just sitting on the sofa cuddling him, the sling is essential if I want to actually get stuff done. I’ve tried loads of different carriers, from structured styles like the ErgoBaby (like it for when they’re older) to simple stretchy wraps (good for teeny babies) and have settled on the Close Caboo for now - it’s soft like a stretchy but way easier to put on, with no complicated folding or tying. Leo loves being carried about and will snuggle in for a sleep when he’s in there. Which is perfect for cracking on with life - chasing after a toddler, doing the washing up or sitting down to avo toast and a latte at my fave cafe.
  • It’s been hard to find my style again after having a baby. I was the same when Hazel was tiny - nothing in my wardrobe seems to work, so I buy new things in an attempt to look like the ‘old me’ when really I need to embrace my new shape and the need to whip a boob out at any given time. I think I these H&M leopard print trousers fit the bill perfectly, though! I’m vowing not to spend more money on new things and instead just make what I’ve got work, and share the results here when it does. Today’s outfit: ✔️

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