A Stay at Ox Pasture Hall Hotel, Scarborough

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For our first wedding anniversary, Rob and I wanted to do something special but low-key. We had a big trip planned the weekend after our anniversary, so local was better. We didn’t want to be away long, so one night was perfect. And we wanted to celebrate our first year, so a touch of luxury was necessary.

When Ox Pasture Hall, a luxury hotel just outside Scarborough, got in touch inviting us for an overnight experience, their timing couldn’t have been more perfect.

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We arranged our visit for Friday 19th September, a couple of days before our anniversary proper, but fine by us. On Friday morning we threw a couple of suitcases into the car and set off on the hour-and-a-half drive through the North Yorkshire countryside. Trundling through tiny villages and across wide open countryside was a great way to blow off the week and prepare for some serious relaxation. And as we pulled up the gravelled drive to the gorgeous ivy-covered building, I knew we were in for a treat!

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We started with afternoon tea in the cosy lounge area, filling up on fresh cucumber sandwiches and warm scones (so delicious). A great energy boost for our subsequent trip into nearby Scarborough, which involved much walking on windswept beaches and several attempted to win big in the arcades. None of which were even remotely successful!

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We headed back to the hotel and spent a few hours relaxing in our room – a beautiful, modern suite with squishy sofa, huge bed and gorgeous bathroom. After a couple of episodes of Come Dine With Me and a freshen up, we made our way down to the restaurant for an evening of fine dining.

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I’d read great things about the food at Ox Pasture so I was very excited to sample the menu. Everything was so delicious – fresh, delicate flavours, local ingredients and a chocolate and raspberry mille-feuille with pistachio ice cream that was just out of this world. Hotel menus can often be bland, boring and repetitive, but this was proper fine dining with a real mix of tastes and a seasonal feel.

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We finished our stay with a huge cooked breakfast (in bed, natch) and a wander around the beautiful grounds. A smattering of confetti on the paved courtyard told us we’d just missed a wedding and Rob and I both agreed Ox Pasture Hall would be a gorgeous place to have one, with the North York Moors as a backdrop and the cosy, luxurious hotel as a base.

Ox Pasture Hall was a great setting for a luxuriously low-key anniversary celebration, and perfectly placed for exploring more of the Moors. And, as we learned after meeting an adorably exciteable Yorkshire Terrier in reception, it’s dog-friendly too. Wonder if I can convince Rob we need a four-legged friend in time for our next visit?

The Sleeveless Coat

Posted in Daily Outfits.

Since writing about wearing a cosy jumper with shorts (also known as the most impractical combination of clothing ever), I’ve been drawn to other pieces that look great but don’t really perform their basic duties of keeping me warm and protecting me from the elements.

Enter the sleeveless coat.

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I’ve been wearing this ‘coat’ so much, despite its total lack of practical features. It basically serves as a fancy throw-over, and I’m fine with that.

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fashion beauty blog ukWorn over jeans and a jumper, I suspect it could be called the ‘perfect transitional piece’ for those of us who speak wanky fashion language. It is great for this time of year, when it’s not quite cold enough for a proper winter coat even though we’re all thoroughly sick of our summer wardrobes.

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Ugh, isn’t it just so beautiful?

Notes on a Modern Marriage – 1 Year In

Posted in Weddings.

vintage style weddingYesterday marked one whole year since Rob and I got married.

Our first year of marriage has been hectic to say the least – we tried (and failed) to buy a house, moved into and entirely furnished a new rented place, saw two more of our friends tie the knot and one bring a baby boy into the world. We’ve done bridesmaid and best man duties, launched new ventures, experienced the terrifying reality of freelance life and navigated insane work schedules, amazing opportunities, tricky finances and both success and disappointment, together.

One thing I found when planning my wedding and working through my first year of marriage is there are very few ‘real’ accounts of weddings and married life. There’s an endless supply of ‘wedspiration’ and I loved looking at this when I was planning (particularly Love My Dress, which is the original and best in my opinion). But it’s often disheartening and depressing to see the barrage of total and utter perfection when you’re planning a wedding that feels like it’s careering off the rails, or trying to work with a budget that’s about 10 grand short for your ideas, or freaking out at the overwhelming pressure of the day.

english country weddingI wanted to include this particular photo in this post – not only because it’s one of my absolute favourites from my own wedding, but because it’s a good example of how imperfection can be welcomed, celebrated and remembered fondly.

I printed this photo out as part of Rob’s first anniversary present. It’s now in a lovely frame and sitting pride of place on our mantlepiece. We love it because it’s such a real representation of our wedding – my veil is gone and my dress is hooked up on the bustle. I did this literally as soon as the group photos were over, because the veil was pissing me off and the dress was dragging about everywhere and people kept standing on it. Rob’s jacket is off and his shirt is untucked, because we’d done the hard ceremony bit and he was ready to party.

I have looked at countless wedding photos, and you very rarely get to see stuff like this. I just wish I had a photo of the state of my dress at 11pm, because that shit was DISGUSTING. Don’t wear a long dress if your wedding reception is in a field, that’s my advice. It took three industrial attempts to clean it, and it still has a grey tinge.

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I’ve already shown you the ‘perfection’ of my own wedding, and now I’d like to write about the bits I struggled with – the most stressful parts of the planning, what went wrong on the day and why it totally didn’t matter, what came next – and what’s happened since the ‘big day’, during 12 months of married life. My notes on a modern marriage, if you will.

I’ll be kicking off next week with the number 1 question asked of all newly married couples – ‘when are you having children?’ – but for now, if you have any wedding/marriage-based topics you’d like me to cover just let me know in the comments. You should also ready Poppy D’s excellent, honest accounts of her own wedding planning. And I’ll see you here next week!

Parisian Style – The Myth

Posted in Daily Outfits, Fashion.

fashion lifestyle blogs uk‘Parisian style’ is probably the most-copied fashion look in the world. That air of nonchalance, the easy elegance, the stripes – it’s a timelessly classic approach to clothing that leaves many of us feeling like we’re wearing nothing more than a bin bag tied with string.

Really, though, Parisian style is a construct created through film and our endless obsession with Audrey Hepburn. I loved this article by Hadley Freeman, in which Freeman blasts French stereotypes and our tendency to reduce Parisian women down to nothing more than a thin frame and a Breton top.

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Of course, there are stylish people in Paris. But there are stylish people everywhere, in every city the world over. There are also badly-dressed people in Paris, just like everywhere else. I saw three fully-fledged French people wearing Crocs, and none of them gave a single fuck about ‘Parisian style’.

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outfit photo blog post ukParis is a city steeped in style, and when visiting, it’s nice to dress up and play up to that stereotype just a little bit. But Paris is also a friendly, welcoming city full of beautiful architecture, fascinating culture and delicious food. And it’s those bits that are worth savouring.

Visiting Paris soon? Forget the faffy clutch bag and uncomfortable shoes – throw on your Converse, load up your tote and sling a camera round your neck. Take photos, practise your pigeon French and walk for miles. You might not radiate effortless elegance, but you’ll have a great time and a holiday you won’t forget.

 

 

An English Girl in Paris: Part Deux

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Our second day in Paris was a dream. We we riding high after seeing the Jay Z and Beyoncé show on Saturday night, so Sunday started bright and early with pastries and fresh juice from the patisserie…

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We ate in our apartment then hopped on the metro towards central Paris – first stop, the Arc de Triomphe.

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Just like every other monument I’ve seen in Paris, the sheer scale and skill of construction of the Arc de Triomphe is breathtaking. It’s quite hard to comprehend how long and intensively people must have worked on this structure to create such intricate detail on such a large scale. Walking through the arch is a beautiful experience, with heads swivelling everywhere to take it all in.

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We started walking towards the Eiffel Tower, and I kept squealing every time it peeped over the top of a building or appeared through the trees until finally, it was right in front of us. There’s something really overwhelming about the Eiffel Tower… it’s just so completely beautiful. It genuinely made me feel a bit awestruck, which could’ve been down to the potent apricot mojito I drank at 2am, granted. But even New York – which has an iconic structure on literally every corner – didn’t give me this level of goosebumps. And I know it’s very uncool to love such a stereotypical representation of Paris, but I couldn’t tear my eyes away. I even bought a so-tacky-it’s-amazing bright gold Eiffel Tower from a stall at the base, which is also very uncool.

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We wandered around the base of the tower for quite a while, drinking cold cans of Orangina and just taking it all in. I was obsessed with the carousel and desperate to go on but was of course pretending to be a proper Parisian in my navy culottes and striped Breton, so restrained myself. It was one of my favourite spots to snap the Tower, though, with the tinkly music and intricate carvings.

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After making our purchases from various dodgy stalls and stuffing our plastic Eiffel Tower keyrings out of sight (sorry, couldn’t resist), we joined the queue to climb to the top of the real thing. I’d read that the queues for the stairs move much faster than those for the lifts, so being four young spritely things that’s where we headed. In about 20 minutes we were buying our tickets (€5 each if you’re over 25 and look it, which I clearly do) and heading up.

It’s tough but not killer and you get a break at level one, where you can choose to pay more and take the lift the rest of the way or battle on to level 2. There’s also a summit, but again that costs more and the views from level 2 are spectacular enough, anyway. We walked round the full 360, taking panoramic shots of the city spread out below. For less than a fiver (if we’re back in sterling), it was a brilliant experience and meant the gigantic bowls of pasta and bottle of wine we consumed after felt more than well-deserved.

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With a few hours left before our flight, we wandered along the Seine towards Musée du Louvre. We didn’t have time to go in – yet another trip to Paris without a look at that infamous half-smile (it was closed last time I tried!). Next time, for sure.

With the sun still blazing down and a few Laudrée macaroons in our bags, we strolled back to the metro through Jardin des Tuileries, where the flowers were still blooming despite the leaves falling from the trees. A truly glorious end to the most wonderful trip!

See Part Une of my Paris trip here.

My Central Paris Recommendations

EatLa Poule au Pot, 121 Rue de l’Université

Drink – Any of the outdoor cafés in Jardin des Tuileries – pull a chair up to the lake and enjoy the view

ShopFragonard, Carrousel du Louvre, 99 rue Rivoli

See – The Eiffel Tower. Forget any notions of ‘hidden Paris’ and just go look at it.