How To Wear A Backpack

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A few weeks ago, I went for a massage and was thoroughly told off by my physio for the size and weight of my beloved Michael Kors handbag. I’ve had the large Selma bag for about 18 months now and I use it pretty much every day, filling it with huge amounts of stuff (sunglasses, umbrella, my laptop, a camera lens, two weeks’ bus tickets, 56 lipsticks, etc etc). I love it more than any other bag I own, despite it being bulky and heavy and awkward.

But, in a twist of fashion fate, my handbag has been destroying my shoulder. I don’t know about you, but I can only carry my bag on one side – my left. Even attempting to carry it on my right makes me feel like I’ll topple over into oncoming traffic. It’s just unnatural.

I had my orders though – no more heavy bags on my left side, unless I fancied a permanent slant to go with that weighty saffiano leather. So I bought a backpack!

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Shirt, Gap | Skirt, Miss Selfridge | Jacket, ASOS | Flats, Boden | Rhea Backpack, Michael Kors | Necklace, Topshop | Sunglasses, Miu Miu

OF COURSE it’s a Michael Kors backpack. I absolutely *love* the Michael Michael Kors range – it’s gorgeous quality for the money and the clean aesthetic has that timeless quality, which makes it easier to justify the price tag.

I bought the Rhea backpack from Sarenza as it was £40 cheaper than I’d seen it anywhere else (although it’s now sold out). It only arrived yesterday, but I am utterly in love. The leather is soft as butter, it’s roomy enough for all my ‘daily essentials’ but not so big that I’ll fill it with useless rubbish and only venture into its shadowy depths every 6 months to remove a rotting plum (this actually happened to my friend Laura).

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Backpacks are having a bit of a ‘moment’ right now, but I’m not really into the 90s grunge style. I chose the Michael Kors because it still has that luxury edge – gold hardware and leather tassels are always top of my list. Today I wore it with double denim – this button-through skirt is a new fave of mine and I will never tire of a denim shirt.

I think simple is probably best when it comes to styling a backpack. I’m looking forward to skipping around Paris with it in May, teamed with a wardrobe of dark denim, navy stripes and rose gold jewellery.

And despite what I learnt in the 90s, it’s definitely cooler to use both straps!

My Face Now

Posted in Beauty.

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… This is it!

Over the last few months I’ve gone through a bit of a beauty overhaul. It started with a dramatic haircut (always a good catalyst for change) and moved through statement brows, a new piercing and a vague attempt at contouring until it finally settled on what I like to call the ‘Daytime Kylie Jenner’.

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I’ve been wearing Mac’s ‘Brave’ lipstick on a loop, breaking only for the Nars Satin Lip Pencil in Luxembourg when I want something brighter. As a longtime fan of statement red, pinky/nude lips are a joy to create – no smudging, no bleeding, no transferring onto the collar of a crisp white shirt. I am converted.

The hair is a bit of a revelation, too – this is the first cut I’ve ever had that requires no heat styling. I wash and condition with L’Oreal Elvive Fibrology (a game changer for fine hair), scrunch some Toni & Guy Wave Memoriser through it and let it dry naturally. If you have fine hair (and not much of it), you’ll know that this is a Big. Deal.

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I’ve also discovered my Holy Grail in Illamasqua’s Eyebrow Cake. I use the shade ‘Thunder’ to boost my pathetic natural brows, giving them shape and definition. For cheeks, I’ve ditched my usual cream blush and turned to powder – something I haven’t used in years. But I love the Sleek Cheek Palette in Pink Lemonade, especially the pinker shade which looks great with nude lips.

Now that my hair’s so easy, I’m investing more time in my makeup and being a little bit braver. The red lips/cat eye liner had become standard for me, so trying more neutral shades is actually quite a challenge… I’m so used to the BAM! of my usual look. But I’m getting there, and I think this softer look will be perfect for the lighter, brighter days of summer.

What’s in your makeup bag at the moment?

Visiting London On A Budget

Posted in Travel.

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I visit London quite a lot for work, so know only too well how expensive a few days in the capital can be. Usually I have my business credit card and personal mantra “expense it, expense it, expense it” on hand to help, but when Rob and I decided to pop down for a few days to see a show, eat some food and have some general good times, I knew it could get costly.

In more reckless times I would’ve absorbed the cost and put it down to ‘just living life’, but these days I’m trying to be more sensible, so I thought I’d have a go at budgeting. A word not particularly familiar to me and my wardrobe of Whistles impulse buys.

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The trip itself came about because I managed to score two return train tickets from Leeds to London for the princely sum of £20… total, not each. For some ridiculous reason it’s often cheaper to fly to Spain than travel 2.5 hours down the UK – it’s for this reason and this reason alone I remain subscribed to East Coast’s newsletters. They had a sale on, we were flexible with our dates – boom, cheap travel secured. Step 1 done.

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The lovely folks at Premier Inn provided a complimentary room at their Waterloo hotel which was obviously a big bonus for our budget trip. However, I’ve stayed in this hotel and many other Premier Inns before and I’m never disappointed – you may not get the quirky charm of an independent hotel or the luxury of a 5-star, but the service is always brilliant. At the Waterloo branch in particular, the staff were delightful, the breakfast was delicious and the bed was cloud-like. They even have pillow menus now.

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With rooms from £82 a night smack bang in the centre of London (we could see Big Ben from our window), it’s pretty hard to beat when you’re on a budget. Step 2, done.

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Once in London, my top tip for anyone wanting to explore on a shoestring is this – walk around. There is so much to see in London, and if you spend all your time in shops or on the tube, you’ll miss it. It’s so easy to wander along – I always think things are very well signposted, and in central most sights are reasonably close together so you won’t be schlepping for hours in the searing, er, rain.

After dropping off our bags at the hotel, Rob and I walked along the Thames and down to the South Bank, grabbed a burrito at the Wahaca van parked up and ate it on a picnic bench in the sun. It was a little breezy, but far cheaper than a big lunch in a restaurant. And so tasty.

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From there, we took the tube and jumped off at Bond Street so we could walk all the way down Oxford Street, then veered off onto Carnaby Street via Liberty. Liberty is the perfect place to while away an afternoon… as long as you’re not tempted into a £400 cushion or Diptyque candle. I’ve never succumbed to the cushion but, aahhh, Diptyque…

After a quick change back at the hotel, we were ready for our evening entertainment. Rob and I are unashamedly fond of musicals, so I’d booked tickets to see Matilda. I kept it cheap with £20 upper balcony seats, but when we arrived to collect them an hour before the show, we were bumped up into the stalls. This is a great tip for mid-week theatre bookings – collect your ticket early and if the show’s not sold out, there’s a good chance you’ll get upgraded to better seats. And then you can go for a celebratory gin.

After the show – which was amazing btw, much better than the Broadway version I saw last year in New York – we went for a late dinner at Pizza Pilgrims. Two full pizzas and wine for £20 in central London? YES.

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On our second (and last) day in London we checked out of our hotel after a slap-up breakfast, leaving our bags behind and heading for one of my favourite places in the city – the Natural History Museum.

When I travel to big cities, I always visit at least one museum. Yes, they’re total tourist traps, but it’s because they’re so good. Often free, full of interesting things, light, airy and usually with toilets – literally everything one could want during a day of sightseeing. The Natural History Museum is a particular fave because the building itself is beautiful, so you’re getting a treat before you even step inside.

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We finished our trip to London with lunch at Cookhouse Joe which was fresh, delicious and very reasonably priced. A great way to end our budget visit!

If you’re visiting one of the world’s major cities, you do have to expect a certain level of expense. But if you’re sensible, you really can save quite a bit on travel, accommodation and food.

What are you top tips for budget travel? For London or anywhere else!

A Weekend In Brighton

Posted in Travel.

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A few weeks ago, Rob and I jumped in the car and drove 4.5 hours in a downwards direction. We ended up in Brighton.

It was actually a planned trip – we’d booked a room at Snooze and dinner at Busby and Wilds. I’d been to Brighton once a couple of years ago, but it was Rob’s first visit and we were both super excited to do some exploring.

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We arrived at Snooze – which is in Kemp Town, just outside Brighton city centre – around 3pm and got parked up on the street right outside. I toyed with the idea of booking an AirBnB for our trip but decided to go with a B&B as we needed reliable parking – Snooze offer permits for £9 per night which allow you to park on the street and surrounding areas. Not the cheapest, but it was worth it to know we’d definitely have a space somewhere rather than chancing it!

Snooze is an amazing place – I loved the eclectic style and vintage finds dotted about the place, and breakfast each morning was amazing. Kemp Town is a 10 minute walk from the centre of Brighton so not far out, but there’s plenty to keep you occupied on the doorstep – we loved wandering round the vintage shops and cafes, and had a great night out in the local bars just a couple of minutes from our hotel.

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The weather was kind during our stay – bright and sunny with a fresh sea breeze. The kind that makes you feel alive and desperate for fish and chips! Our walk from Kemp Town into central Brighton took us right along the seafront and it was lovely to stroll along the pebble beach and down the pier to look out over the water. I’m not sure if it’s because it’s where I spent my childhood holidays or because wherever you are in the UK you’re never too far from the ocean, but there’s something about the seaside that makes me feel very happy.

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The Laines is Brighton’s famous shopping mecca, filled with amazing vintage shops and independent cafes. Rob and I spent ages just pottering about, nipping in and out of these fascinating places and taking it all in. It reminded me of a cooler, ‘alternative’ version of The Shambles in York or like The Corn Exchange in Leeds back in the early 00s, but times 20. With all the piercing shops, Punky Fish clothing and burning incense, my 17 year-old self was in her element.

There’s a real sense of community here, too – shop owners stood outside chatting, market traders played music and the cafes and bars were absolutely heaving with locals and tourists alike. It’s a fantastic place to be and I’ve been daydreaming about opening a shop there ever since…

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We had such a brilliant time in Brighton and neither of us wanted to leave. When you spend a bit of time exploring past the stag dos and tourist traps, it’s easy to see why so many people suck up the longer commute into London to live here. Those towering Victorian terraces, the fresh sea air, hot doughnuts on the pier and a cool coffee shop on every corner – what’s not to love? I’m already planning our next trip…

My Brighton Recommendations

For dinner – Busby and Wilds, 8/9 Rock Street
For drinks – Brighton Rocks, 6 Rock Place
For brunch – The New Club, 133/134 Kings Road
For vintage – Snoopers’ Paradise, 7/8 Kensington Gardens
Because you’ve gotta – Brighton Pier, Madeira Drive

Why I Don’t Do Outfit Posts

Posted in Blogging.

Ok, so I’m being a touch dramatic with the title of this post, but “Why I Don’t Do Outfit Posts That Much Any More” just wasn’t as catchy.

In almost three months, I’ve shared just one outfit here on the blog. Compared to a year ago when I was posting at least three a week, or a couple of years ago when I totted up five a week without fail, sometimes six, that’s a marked difference. So what’s changed?

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Outfit posts are the fashion blogger’s bread and butter. In my experience, an outfit post will get far more views than any other content – people want to see what you’re wearing, how you’re wearing it and where they can buy it. It’s the perfect example of the ‘real life’ element that makes blogs so popular.

The thing no one really says, though, is that outfit posts are a bitch.

They’re by far the most difficult to photograph – there’s the weather, the location and the light to consider as well as the actual outfit. And unless you’re up for lugging a tripod out to some remote back alley where you can take your self-portraits in peace (I did this for years and it was not fun), you’ll also need a willing photographer. Outfit posts often take ages to write up, too, as you’re constantly searching for interesting ways to say ‘this is what I wore today’, as well as hunt down links to stuff you bought two years ago. With a full time job – which inconveniently takes place during those precious daylight hours – and some semblance of a life, creating just one outfit post is an absolute mission.

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For me, though, the real killer is how this kind of blogging can make you feel. Although blogs are generally nice, happy, positive places, offering your personal style up for comment is a dangerous game. There’s an expected standard for outfit posts, and if you don’t meet it – too bad. When I was sharing my outfits regularly, I stressed over what to wear almost every day. I was so caught up in keeping up, I felt like I needed new clothes constantly and I shopped like a maniac. Anything for fresh, new, relevant content. Buying clothes was no longer about what I actually wanted to wear – which is, as it always has been, jeans and a t-shirt – but about what would look good in an outfit post.

I was literally shopping for page views.

I didn’t really realise how hard trying to maintain outfit posts had become until I stopped. Standing in front of my (full-to-bursting-rail’s-already-collapsed-once-and-it’s-a-double) wardrobe despairing at the lack of anything to wear, I thought about what I was doing that day. Going into my studio, where I have no boss because I work for myself and no dress code because I’m not a lawyer, to sit at my desk and work. I could wear my pyjamas if I really wanted to. Basically, it was time to get a grip.

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For the past couple of months, I’ve worn a rotation of leather leggings and skinny black jeans, various pieces of oversized knitwear and my DMs, all in shades of black and grey. Sometimes navy. It’s not that I’ve sacked off fashion in favour of floor-length hemp dresses and Crocs – I’ve just cut out the rigmarole that comes with creating ‘outfit posts’. I still want to share what I wear, but more full-length mirror selfies on Instagram than artfully posed professional shots at sunset.

Since realising that I’m not the next street style star and adopting a more laidback approach to getting dressed, I actually feel stylish. I guess it’s about being comfortable – I’m much more myself in jeans and an oversized shirt than a mismatched co-ord and pointy heels.

So here’s to spending a little more time behind the lens than in front of it… with the exception of heavily-filtered selfies, obvs.