Let’s Discuss – Women’s Clothing Sizing

Posted in Fashion, Writing.

It’s fair to say I do a lot of shopping. I love browsing for new things, finding bargains and skipping home with a carrier bag (or two) swinging beside me. I don’t, however, love trying clothes on.

High street changing rooms are a sartorial nightmare. The lighting is hideous, creating cellulite in places you didn’t even know it could exist (my ankles? Really?!). The space is tiny, leaving no room for manoeuvring into those slightly-too-small leather trousers. And there’s never a seat, so don’t even THINK about trying to get your tights back on without stumbling into the curtain and spilling out into queuing shoppers. With such horror waiting for you behind that sheet of polyester, it’s no wonder so many of us despise trying clothing on in-store.

I very rarely brave the changing rooms when I’m shopping. Instead I pick out my size in the items I like, buy them and try them on in the comfort of my own bedroom, where the lighting is flattering and there’s no maximum number of items. But although it seems like the ultimate clothing convenience, there’s a huge problem with trying on clothing after you’ve purchased it – when it comes to women’s clothing, size means nothing.

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Photo by sporkist

In my wardrobe, I have clothing ranging from size 10 right up to size 18. And all of it fits. The number in the label doesn’t bother me in the slightest – I don’t care what size the industry says I am, I just want to be able to go into a shop and know that an item in that size will fit me. I don’t want to buy a pair of shorts in a size up (because I like them loose), only to find I need at least two sizes bigger because they’re skintight (H&M, I’m looking at you). I don’t want to buy a form-fitting pencil skirt in my normal size, only to find it sags immediately (hello M&S). And I especially don’t want to repurchase my favourite jeans, in the same style, in the same size, only to find they’re far too small (Topshop, you’re guilty).

It’s not just clothing either – shoe sizing varies wildly from shop to shop and even something as fundamental as bra sizing, for which you get professionally measured, is not the same across brands. But why? Is it a vanity thing – are we so body-obsessed that we’d rather see a lower number in the label than have ‘true to size’ clothing in our wardrobe?

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Photo by aussiegall

This post on Retro Chick gives a fascinating look at the actual measurements used by high street stores – information that’s not included in the label. Her Campaign for Clearer Clothes Sizing calls for shops to disclose the measurements they use to cut their items – it’s not about standardising sizing so all size 12s are the same, because not all size 12 bodies are the same. It’s about shops being more open about the true size of their clothing, so we know that in Topshop we might be a 10, but in H&M we’re more like a 14.

For me, I’d like to see some consistency within stores. If I already have a pair of 30/32 jeans in my wardrobe, I expect the same style in the same size to fit… well, the same. Is that really too much to ask?

What do you think – do you struggle with clothing sizes across shops? Are you often left frustrated when you discover the number in the label is a barefaced lie and you’ll have to take the offending item back? What do you think could be done to make clothes sizing clearer and less rage-inducing?

The Classic Shirt Dress

Posted in Daily Outfits.

I’ve always thought of the shirt dress as somewhat matronly – a bit safe and dull, worn with black pumps and a faded cardigan by mid-level banking sector workers. Usually I wouldn’t look twice, but when I spotted a navy Gap shirt dress in a charity shop for a mere £3, I decided to think of it as a blank canvas and see what I could create.

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Gap shirt dress via charity shop, Primark tights and belt, Topshop necklace, boots c/o Sarenza, Edina Ronay bag via TK Maxx, H&M ring

Because the dress is so simple and well-fitting, I could add cranberry tights, a statement necklace, skinny belt and splash of pink lipstick without looking like Zandra Rhodes. The cute leather boots and leopard print bag pull everything together for a look that’s more stylish than systems-analyst-in-a-meeting.

Do you have a shirt dress in your wardrobe? How do you style it?

If In Doubt, Do Denim

Posted in Daily Outfits, Fashion.

That’s my fashion motto. Whenever I’m feeling unsure about my style, fed up with my wardrobe or confused by the weather (that’s today), I reach for the denim and suddenly all is well once more.

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Skinny jeans c/o Next, Topshop shirt, Vivienne Westwood shoes c/o Sarenza, ASOS necklace, Edina Ronay bag via TK Maxx

Denim can be drab when worn alone, so I have a few other items that are perfect for dressing up jeans or a chambray shirt. The ASOS spike necklace is an old favourite I wear every other day, and my Vivienne Westwood shoes are surprisingly versatile considering the sparkly pinkness of them. Finally, a touch of Topshop’s Brighton Rock lipstick and a shiny new handbag and my outfit doubts are put to rest.

What’s your failsafe when you just can’t decide what to wear?

Let’s Discuss – Haggling at Charity Shops

Posted in Second Hand Shopping.

Last week I wrote about the faux fur coat I picked up in a charity shop. I bought it from a shop I visit frequently and buy from often – the North Leeds branch of Mind. It was priced at £45 which I considered too high for a charity shop purchase, so after a chat with the manager (who I’ve spoken to a few times during my visits), I asked if she’d consider an offer. She was happy to, and five minutes later I left a happy customer.

I didn’t consider it ‘haggling’. In fact, I didn’t think anything of it until someone left a comment on the post saying I’d cheated the charity (and the people it helps) out of £10. And that got me thinking.

I’m a regular second hand shopper and visit a range of charity shops, supporting both local and national charities, on a weekly basis. I know many of the volunteers well and can often be found chatting away about my latest purchases. I would much rather buy my vintage faux fur jacket in a charity shop for a decent price, donating money to a worthy cause while I’m at it, than in an overpriced vintage shop or a high street store. But it’s still a purchase, and I’m still handing over my own cash. And I’ve spent enough of my salary in charity shops to know when something’s overpriced.

So, what’s better? Walking away without spending a penny because an item’s overpriced, which means it’ll probably linger on the rails for months? Or having a friendly chat with the manager and coming to an agreement everyone’s happy with? When I asked on Twitter, opinions were mixed. Some said they’d never question a charity shop’s prices on principle, while others said it’s better to donate something to charity than nothing at all. The response that summed it up perfectly for me was from belledidyoutell, who manages a charity shop. She said it completely depends on the situation, and I think that’s key to this discussion. I would never quibble over a few pence, or ‘try my luck’ to save more money. I would also never ask for money off in a charity shop I’d never visited before. But in this situation, it didn’t feel wrong to do so. If the manager had said no to an offer, I would’ve accepted with grace and left without the coat.

So, what do you think? Would you ask for an offer in a charity shop? Have you asked before? Does it depend on the situation or is it a clear cut case of cheating a charity? Share your thoughts and experiences below.

And in the interest of keeping things positive, here are a few of my favourite charity shop bargains…

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The faux fur coat in question, from Mind

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These vintage high waisted trousers were from St Gemma’s Hospice

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A cute floral tea dress, also from St Gemma’s

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This sunflower skirt is a summer favourite, bought from an RSPCA shop

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This Vogue mirror was another Mind find

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The wicker basket that holds logs for our fire was from Age UK

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A vintage bag from St Gemma’s

Wearing the AW Trends #4 – Colour Block

Posted in Daily Outfits, Fashion.

After my time at London Fashion Week and The Look Show, I came home with a notebook full of inspiration for my Autumn/Winter wardrobe. All this week I’ll be creating looks based on the AW11 trends, using pieces from my wardrobe and a few key purchases.

Colour Block

Block colours were popular with stylish sisters all summer long, and the trend looks set to continue through the cooler months. For autumn, cyan blue, hot pink and neon orange have been replaced by mustard yellow, grass green and rich burgundy. Sounds good enough to eat!

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Zara jumper, ASOS blouse and necklace, jeans c/o Next, Vivienne Westwood shoes c/o Sarenza, Cambridge satchel, H&M ring

When I spotted the gorgeous Laura from Wearing it Today in this outfit, I knew I wanted, nay – needed a bright chunky knit. Both our jumpers are from Zara and I totally copied that ‘pushed up sleeves’ thing she works so well. To build my colour block, I wore a yellow Peter Pan collar blouse and my burgundy skinnies, finished off with a touch of shoe porn courtesy of Viv.

What do you think – is colour blocking the Autumn/Winter 2011 look for you? Or are you smitten with Animalism, Swinging Sixties or Androgyny?

PS – I whipped the jumper off after these photos as it’s swelteringly hot outside. Autumn: you’re doing it wrong.