Getting Older – How Has Your Style Changed?

Posted in Daily Outfits, Fashion.

At the end of 2011 (30th December, to be exact!) I turned 26. I’ve always been ‘an old head on young shoulders’ (as my mum would say), and over the last few months I’ve noticed my taste in clothing is maturing, too.

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French Connection coat, H&M silk shirt, Whistles jumper via charity shop, Uniqlo jeans, Zatchels metallic satchel, F21 necklace, Ara flats c/o Sarenza

The girly, vintage look is popular in fashion blogging and was a real favourite of mine – nothing could come between me and my floral tea dresses. But recently, I find myself favouring clean lines, classic colours and graphic prints over anything cutesy. I’m visiting French Connection (where I got this amazing coat reduced from £200 to £80 – thanks to Laura from WIT for the heads up!), Uniqlo, Cos and Zara much more, and making a beeline for the basics.

There’s a notion that as we get older, we should be dressing more conservatively. Once we’re ticking that 26-35 box (or the one after it), should we be swapping the flirty florals for sombre suits and sensible shoes? Well, no. Of course not. But as I move further away from my early twenties, I can see the definite shift in my style. It’s not about becoming boring or safe or ‘classic’, but about being a bit more comfortable in your clothing. It’s about knowing what suits you and what doesn’t (hello midi skirts!). And it’s about experimenting less, (hopefully) avoiding those mistakes, and really understanding your wardrobe.

How has your style changed as you’ve gotten older? Have you noticed a sartorial shift, or do you dress the same way now as you did at 18? (And if you’re still 18… I’m jealous!)

So You Want To Be A Freelancer?

Posted in Writing.

Back in June 2011, I shared some big news – I’d quit my job and had decided to go freelance. Seven months later, my freelance business is going well, and I often get asked about my work and, well, how it works.

Today I posted about a copywriter job on Twitter, which led to a few discussions about getting into freelancing and the best way to do it. After seven months I don’t think I’m an expert on the subject. But when I first started out I found it really helpful to hear others’ perspectives and experiences, so thought I’d share my own.

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My home office

The question I’m asked most is ‘how did you do it?’. And my answer is really simple – I quit my job. Taking that first step was the hardest, scariest, most irresponsible thing I’ve ever done in my career – I wasn’t forced into it through redundancy, it wasn’t a necessary move, and I left a full time, well paid role behind. But all that turned out to be an excellent driving force – I had to make it work, or live with the knowledge I gave up a secure job to bum about watching CSI: NY reruns all day (which does still happen, sometimes).

With that drive behind me, I pulled in every contact I could think of. After working in a range of advertising agencies I had a fair few entries in my little black book and I’d remained on good terms with them all. That’s another thing about freelancing – you can’t burn bridges, ever. In an industry like marketing, everyone knows everyone and word will soon spread. When it comes to social networks, I have a strict ‘don’t talk about work’ rule – unless it’s something positive, I just don’t say it. And maintaining those strong relationships meant work was soon coming in.

For the first few months, I had no idea what I was doing. I swung between sitting rigidly at my desk from 9-5.30pm to taking three hour lunch breaks and coming home laden with bags to working ’til 1am, hunched over my laptop. Managing my own time has been the most difficult part of freelancing – there’s no one to tell you work starts at 9am, no one to stop you spending all day on Twitter, and no one to tell you to go home when you’re still working at 10pm. I’m slowly adjusting now though – I’ve realised I can go swimming in the morning and start work afterwards, or take a day off in the week to see a friend. The beauty of freelance is in creating your own schedule and not having to adhere to a traditional working week.

I love my work and enjoy being my own boss (no one can tell me a leather skirt isn’t ‘appropriate office attire’), but freelancing is hard. I’ve seen it described as ‘feast or famine’ – some months I’m up to my eyeballs in Word documents, and others I’m twiddling my thumbs (well, not quite). Saving for and paying your own tax is hideous. Working from home is lonely (although Twitter helps, and I’d thoroughly recommend a cat). After five years of working in close-knit creative teams, I miss having people to sense-check my ideas. But it’s all a learning process, and every day it gets a little bit easier.

The other thing people often say to me is ‘I really want to do it, but I’m too scared’. Most days I operate in a state of managed terror – I check my accounts constantly, calculating and recalculating my figures to make sure I’m earning enough. Every conversation is an opportunity for work, and I take the chameleon approach – not every offer is the perfect match for my skills, a well-known brand or a big payer but if I can help, I will.

Going freelance hasn’t been simple. I still hate Excel and I miss wearing shoes every day (slippers are a freelancer’s best friends). It was a bold decision, but one I don’t regret and one I hope will continue to work out for me. For anyone thinking about taking the leap, I’d recommend hunting down fellow freelancers on Twitter, reading everything you can (especially this fab post by The Dexterous Diva) and making sure you really understand the tax stuff. Those HMRC guys mean srs bidniz.

Have you ever considered going freelance? Are you a freelancer yourself? Share your thoughts, tips, advice or concerns in the comments.

PS – If you’d like to chat about freelancing, writing, tax returns (don’t expect much on that one) or anything really, you can email me or find me on Twitter.

Thrift Finds of The Month – January

Posted in Second Hand Shopping.

I’m not being entirely truthful with this post, as only one of these pieces was found in January. But hopefully you’ll forgive me for getting creative with the dates when you see what I found…

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I’ve been searching for an ornate silver tray since I saw one on Paula’s blog. When I spotted this beauty for only £2.99, I was at the till in a flash.

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I must thank the lovely volunteer at my favourite St Gemma’s Hospice shop for pointing this one out. I had a grey wool coat in my arms and was ready to pay when she mentioned ‘the grey scarf’ that would go with it perfectly. It’s gorgeously soft and was a steal at only £1.50.

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I’ll admit – I have no idea how to wear this. I bought it for the beautiful collar alone – wouldn’t it look great peeping out from under a scoop neck jumper? For £2, it’s a worthy style challenge.

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Ralph Lauren isn’t a brand I’m usually drawn to, but the colour caught my eye. This shade of blue looks good on everyone – I’m saving this one for summer to wear over cute dresses.

Have you bagged any bargains recently?

How To Wear Leggings As Trousers

Posted in Daily Outfits, Fashion.

Well, that’s a blog title I never thought I’d write…

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Zara leggings, Uniqlo jumper, H&M blouse, Jonak brogues c/o Sarenza, F21 necklace, Topshop ring

Leggings as trousers – a topic of hot debate (ahem) among fashion fans. Some believe anything higher than 120 denier provides suitable coverage to be worn alone (although their visible underwear begs to differ) while the thought of such flimsy fashion leaves others cold (literally).

A few weeks before Christmas, I spotted these subtly sparkly leggings in Zara and was immediately smitten. They’re a heavy, stretchy cotton mix with a seam down the front and zips at the ankles, making them a beautiful fit and flattering to boot. The glittery sheen may be a little New Year’s Eve for the 3rd of January, but a cosy jumper and simple shirt takes the edge off the sparkle while 90s brogues give the outfit that ‘My So Called Life’ look.

So while I’m generally against major fashion crimes, I’ll make an exception for leggings as trousers… as long as the following guidelines are adhered to!

1. Wear a longline top – no one needs to know you wear your ‘Wednesday’ pants on Fridays
2. Choose leggings in a thicker material – not only will you feel more ‘covered’ but they’ll suck you in, too
3. Stick to simple colours – neon leopard print won’t flatter anyone’s thighs
4. Pay a little extra – invest your pennies for a quality cotton mix, stronger stitching and added details. Zara and Topshop have some great styles around the £20 mark

What do you think – would you wear leggings as trousers?

2012 – The Year of Travel

Posted in Travel, Writing.

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Image from Malias’ Flickr

These days, admitting that you’re not particularly well travelled is something of a social faux pas. The trend for gap years, the cheapness of flights and the intrigue of the faraway mean that by 26, many people have seen the world three times over.

I haven’t. I can count the number of countries I’ve visited on one hand, and they’re all in Europe. I love going on holiday, quite enjoy airports and have developed a taste for in-flight meals (that stick of cheese and the bread roll? YUM). I’ve just never been interested in travelling. I have no desire to pack my life into a rucksack and live off Imodium and beer for 12 months (I know, I know – I’m generalising here).

But recently, I’ve discovered my sense of adventure. I’ve realised that travelling doesn’t have to involve a first aid kit and a bar job. I could start with a weekend away here, 10 days on a beach there. And if I stopped contributing to my already over-stuffed wardrobe, I’d be able to afford it too.

So that’s my one and only New Year’s Resolution. To travel. I’m starting big with an American roadtrip in May, taking in Chicago, Maine and New York. Then I’d love to see some cities, maybe even a beach. And I’m not just talking overseas travel – there are so many beautiful parts of the UK that I’ve never seen, and I’d love to get more acquainted.

How about you – have you seen the world or are you just getting started? Any recommendations for me?

PS – Happy New Year!